In terms of personal choice, few topics are debated more than death and dying. One may not have a choice of being born, but many believe that a person should be able to choose how and when they die, especially in the case of terminally ill or long-suffering patients.
Often, it's not the loved one or their close friends who disagree with this, but rather it's government officials. They have sought repeated to overturn Oregon's Death with Dignity Act, which allows physicians to help with under certain restrictions. Oregon was the first state to enact this kind of measure to allow people the choice to choose their death, and it still remains one of the few states that protect this choice.
For many family members, is preferable to making a loved one suffer for months or years while alive. In making this difficult, highly personal decision, hospice and palliative care and assisted suicide networks can give them advice and resources.
Senior citizens can get access to hospice care via their social security benefits, whether they enter nursing homes or choose to remain in private houses. It is not very expensive, and the experience of death and dying can be made somewhat easier when a hospice staff provides emotional support and physical comfort for the dying person and his or her loved ones.
Even if a death is planned beforehand, dealing with death and dying is hard, especially when it is a loved one. If you know someone who is living with loss, make sure you can be there for him or her and be concerned about their feelings.
Generally, treat someone who is grieving like you normally would. Oftentimes, when someone we know is experiencing loss, and we may feel uncomfortable saying or doing anything because we are concerned about the right way to do it. Instead of offering support, some people tend to shy away.
It can be hard to find the right words when a person is in mourning and grieving painfully. There is no perfect formula to soften death and dying for everyone all the time. However, the fact is that most of the time, the best thing you can possibly do is to listen to what the grieving person needs to say.