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Love- whenever this four letter word is uttered, the kind of love that comes into the mind is the love between a girl and a boy. Love has almost become synonymous with the love that is shared between a male and a female, in the very obvious sense. All other forms of love are more or less always under the covers. Even in majority of the movies and books a love story between a girl and a boy is always portrayed, even when it doesn't have a role to play in the plot. Most of the songs and poetry also celebrate the most stereotypical type of LOVE.
From time immemorial love between a man and a woman has always been the most celebrated form of love. So much so that even fairytales are made on this eternal conception of love. Even history has been created on this love. The famous battle of Troy was for love. The battle of Kurukshetra was also for love. So it is not unnatural that the conjugal love is given more importance rather than the love shared between a mother and a child which is often said to be the purest form of love. admin82.com
There is nothing wrong if a person chooses his or her life partner, and nowadays there is nothing wrong even if a person chooses a partner and then changes his or her mind. The conception of love has taken a major change nowadays. Today couples spend time together, move around, see each other, have fun, and even live in together. But this does not mean that they will be spending the rest of their lives together. The concept of morality has also undergone a major change, at least in the metropolitan cities. People are no longer after the age old dictum of marrying only a virgin, or for that matter marring only once. And virginity too has ceased to be the certificate of fidelity that it was considered to be earlier, at least in the affluent cosmopolitan societies.
It is a completely subjective matter, who marries whom, or who sleeps around with whom. It is completely upto the individual what kind of a partner he or she chooses, what kind of a life he or she wants to spend with their respective spouses, so on and so forth. But then it is completely wrong if somebody takes the advantage of the other person and plays around with his or her sentiments, emotions, and feelings. There are many boys especially who like to flirt around with girls just for the sake of fun and punch. Need less to say that it is a very wrong conception and also goes against the basic concepts of morality. admin82.cn
Worse still there are people who are so desperate that they indulge in sexual and physical relations with the members of their own blood. There are a number of instances when boys and girls of the same blood indulge in this kind of relationship. This is not only against morality but this kind of relationship is also not supported by medical science. The sexual amalgamation of two people from the same familial background or from the same blood can usher in many problems, in case a child is born from the relation.
Very often it is seen that people who get involved in these kinds of relationships fall into deep depression at times. Nobody is stranger to the fact that this kind of relations fail to garner any kind of social acclamation. However hard these people try to create a world of their own, they are always haunted and troubled by the social and familial boycott seclusion that they have to go through. Man is after all a social animal. He needs a society to live in. So these intra family relations distant a person from the protection of the social cushion and he or she has to face all the trials and tribulations alone. This social rejection takes a toll on many people and they fall into depression in such a way that even the anti depressants, can't cure them of their ailment. The main reason behind this is that, medicines like can no doubt cure depression in a person, but the effect is only temporary. Unless and until, the cause of depression is eradicated, no anti depressant can help the victim. But in case the cause is eradicated, one can or even to do away with depression once and for all.
